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Reality of Material Existence | Point of Inspiration | Healing | Principle of Self-Reponsibility

 

Reality of Material Existence

All life as you know it, comes from the void. You are born from oneness into uniqueness with innocence steeped in curiosity.

Most human experience is instilled with clarity and conflict, oneness and duality. Children experience unfettered clarity and live in relationship with simplistic vision. Invisible playmates delight them, becoming true companions. Children know Truth and connect with angels, teachers, guides and messengers, seeing them clearly and often knowing them by name. Adults have the capacity to be guided by these unseen forces also, the forces that can lead to an individual’s highest potential.

As we engage in relationships, and begin to listen to others rather than oneself, connections with our primary guiding forces become mute. We close off from inner realities, directing our attention outward to learn about knowledge and others’ perceptions of knowledge. We leave our authentic guidance system, the Innate Wisdom within all of life, to become harnessed to others’ systems of belief and control. Access to Higher Self(1) slowly closes, as, over time, many of us take on belief systems that lead to varying degrees of separation and conflict. As we age, we experience adversity in our thoughts, words and/or actions. We cultivate conflictive aspects of ourselves that are the true source of our internal struggle. This battle leads to a breakdown of balance, vitality and health. Most of us seek little knowledge of our true motives and continue to separate ourselves from what we most desire, to be free to relate altruistically with others.

In our expression of separation we unwittingly insult and assault each other in an attempt to change the outside world into being what we believe in. We try to coerce others into seeing us with clarity, understanding our motives and seeing the perfection of the world we create for ourselves. We strive to make the outside world conform to what we have created internally and pit ourselves against anyone whose ideas or beliefs are not syncronistic with our own self-sustaining truths. We attempt to manipulate others so we can sustain the integrity of our personal foundations.

We determine what we like or do not like about others as we filter incoming information through our systems of historical knowledge and belief. We attract like-minded people to us. If you like to drink beer and smoke cigars, or do tapestry and knitting, that will draw you to others who do the same. The likenesses affirm belonging, health and safety of the identity. Conversely, responding to differences can distance us from each other. The nature of perceptual differentiation can either lead to diverse integration or adverse separation. These external relationships assist us in sustaining our personal foundations and through choice, we continually create ourselves anew in these relationships, either mindfully or by default.

We think, speak and take action in relation to our self-sustained belief systems, and find we have little luck getting the outside world, that does not match ours, to change, as it continues to maintain its position of ‘against me.’ The conflictive experience is maintained as long as we are attached to the self-limiting belief systems that place us in a contradictory mode with anyone or anything outside of ourselves. Until we learn that ‘we are’ what ‘that is,’ and choose to become true to our authentic nature, we will experience aspects of others as ‘against us.’

We create suffering by judging and labeling people, places and things for eaxample as different, wrong, flawed, frustrating feared, stupid or evil. At the same time, we are connected to the original intention of our innate wisdom, the wisdom that desires to live in deeply intimate community with flourishing creativity.

We often operate in relationships from historical systems sustained by fear. These systems represent the many emotional underpinnings from which we think, speak and act. The fabric of these underpinnings is woven from belief systems, from this and other lifetimes, about not being lovable, not good enough, or in some other way deficient or flawed. It becomes even more complicated when the person with whom we are in realtionship brings his/her own baggage to the table. Both systems, in conflict with authentic aspect of our nature, colide when the ‘I hate myself’ in me meets the ‘I am not good enough’ in them. Both get pulled into a quagmire of confused, manipulative interchange, and feel split, with our sense of union shattered. We continue to experience separation. We love and hate each other at the same time, which puts us in conflict. This is the dualistic nature of life in a constant attempt to reach its highest level of fulfillment.

The seed of everything’s opposite must be present in it for it to know itself and when opposites are congruent life is sustainable. When opposites become incongruent life eventually becomes unsustainable. The disturbance factors become harmful and/or destructive.

In your evolutionary cycle the question becomes, do you want to disappear by killing yourself or would you choose to disappear naturally by simply re-emerging with God Consciouness?

Appearing in the world, we must experience uniqueness and label ourselves with identifiers to know who we are. In varying degrees we turn uniqueness into separation and in the process of learning about who we are, we forget who we ‘Are.’ We experience and express ourselves as if differences mean ‘against me,’ when in fact we are simply different. Uniqueness is established partly by our heritage, partly by our choices and partly through a seeded gift. We may become a healer because our mother, father or great grandfather was a healer. We may choose to be an entertainer because we were attracted to a particular artist as we grew up. Or, we might intuitively be drawn to basketweaving as a profession because that is what we carry as an authentic skill – a seeded gift. All of these can be instrumental in leading us to our life work, and infinite possibilities exist in every moment which allow us to continue to reinvent the ‘I’ that each of us is striving to become, the one person we dream ourselves to be, the highest experience of ourselves that we can express.
As we go about the task of creating ourselves, we often get caught up sustaining our inauthentic external identifiers of uniquenes: my car, my house, my husband/wife, my body, my job. We compare ours with the identifiers of others, and lose sight of our one internal identifier, gifted and born from the seed of who we are authentically, the one gift we are given to know who we are, our connection to God Consciouness.

The perfect gift from the seed of life is authentic expression. It has all the information to know what it is, what it will become and how to be its best. The seed and the life sustaining ingredients are all gifted to us through our connection with the mysterious wonder that perpetuates life through infinite flawless orchestration – Universal Consciousness. This conscious awareness provides infinite creative aspecting and gives each human being choice. We experience through choice or non-choice.

A fundamental question everyone faces is, “Who makes the best choice?” Is our best choice made by the ego-driven and baggage-burdened ‘self’? Or, is our best choice made by the all seeing, all knowing ‘higher Self’? If we choose to ‘ask’ the higher Self in seeking guidance, while placing ourselves in the position of neutrality, the answers will come from higher conscious awareness. If we do not choose to ask the higher Self communucation system, the circuitry will shut down and the answers will come from mental machinations filtered through personal historical experience.When you are not in communication with God Consciousness and are continuing to make your own choices, ask if there is anything you are missing in your life. Are you happy? Do you feel an unmistaken ability to enjoy each moment? Have you lost interest in judging others and yourself? If your answer is, “No, or not completely,” there may be conflict in your personal matrix, that part within each person from which other parts originate or develop.

These conflicts are characterized by some as the ‘shadow side’ of the self. Looking at the shadow side of our worldly experiences is not something we have practiced. We perpetuate pain and suffering when we neglect to witness and take responsibility for the creation of our shadow side. Again, consider the following words: different, wrong, flawed, frustrating, feared, stupid, evil, then find them within. If you see these aspects in your external world, you ARE these aspects. If you do not see them in the external world, then they do not exist within. This is the masterful way we have been designed. When we take responsibility for seeing our shadow side and feel the reality of what it is, we can choose to create from constructive aspects of our nature. When we take responsibility for silently observing and embracing the shadow side, we can see and understand, with compassion, what it is and why it is playing itself out. We become free, transitioning from moment-to-moment into the higher aspects of who we are authentically.

Our ability to awaken and strengthen our direct connection to Universal Consciousness depends on ‘choice.’ If we choose to align with our Higher Self, we have the ability to achieve greater clarity regarding who we are, what we want and what our purpose is on this life journey. The one true path is the road leading to our highest potential in the expression of our unique gift to humanity. Our life purpose is the fulfillment of the contract of our soul, the life blood of our authentic journey, infused with passion, inspiration and energetic exchange, with headwaters that flow and merge with the sea of unconditional love.

Pain and suffering are released from life experiences when you listen to and align with the inner voice, the Innate Wisdom within all life. As you grow into your highest potential, aligning with your perfection, the original connection returns and the soul’s presence shines from behind your eyes. As you awaken, innocence and wisdom walk hand-in-hand.

One road to the reconnecting experience is the study or experience of Fluent Communication – rekindling relationship with the inner voice or Higher Self. By committing to give and receive love unconditionally we learn what love is, and how ties that bind us to what love is not can be released. Realigning to the Innate Wisdom within all of life empowers and moves us into a higher experience of ourselves. It brings us back to the perceptual experience that all individuals are equal, however unique, and are part of the one energetic source. Instead of living as fragments of several different belief systems, we understand ourselves as separate and the same, equal and original, many and one.

1. The Intelligent Mind or Higher Self is the intangible essence of each human being that sees all and knows all. When activated, it is the catalyst that can lead each person out of pain and suffering. It can guide us into the experience of Paradise on Earth if we listen and attend to its directives.

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Point of Inspiration

The journey is orchestrated in relationship to movement and stillness, stillness and movement. As you grow into a broader spectrum of awareness, you will notice that you move from sickness to health and back again. You also move from positive feelings to negative feelings and back again. Everything in life has a cycle with tension lines that hold them in perpetual motion, toward and away from each other. You may notice yourself attracting patterns that show up in your relationships. As you move into positive or negative patterns you feel the affects of the patterns on you, which carry emotional indicators of positive, neutral and negative energy.

The positive and negative experiences can vary in extremes of experience and expression. The larger the magnetic field of tension the more extreme the experience. As one releases core issues that have led to perpetual cycles, the overall tension of experience lessens. The perspective that determines the severity of reactivity changes to non-reaction or observation. It moves out of duality into singularity, from ‘I am separate from you’ to ‘I am you, I am everything.’

Can you make a decision to change patterns simply by choosing to have them be different? The answer is yes and no. Sometimes it is just that easy. Observing yourself in an experience that you would not choose to be in again is sometimes all the pattern needs to change. And, the no side of the answer is, sometimes it takes a different approach to change an attractor pattern connected to cellular memory. Cellular memories can be connected to core issues, the energetic attractors that must change in order for the recurring pattern to clear itself completely. Until now, you have had to simply make decisions and move on, watching, waiting and hoping the pattern would not repeat itself. Fluent Communication will assist you in changing the recurring patterns in such a way that they will not continue to pull you into cycles that are energetically depleting.

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Healing

In your personal life story, you create patterns of unity or disunity grounded in your choices and secondarily in attractor patterns or fields. Within what appears to be random or unconnected occurrences, there is actually an invisible, organizing pattern field of influence that affects the occurrence of phenomena. Within each entity, there is a field of possible choices, prevailing sets of conditions including consequences of past choices from this and other lifetimes. These prevailing sets of conditions are often referred to as destiny, fate or luck.

You have the choice of love and forgiveness or of hate and condemnation. Each choice moves you into a different energy field. You can appreciate how the world sees but not be entrapped by it. You are free to subscribe to a quality or position. All positions are voluntary. Without a position, life is experienced as serene and you experience wisdom rather than self-pity or bitterness. Peace is literally a choice and a decision, a decision to overlook the seeming inequities of life instead of reacting to them. The most powerful determining factor in spiritual destiny or karma is intention and decision of the spiritual will.

Patterns of unity are foundationally grounded in Love, which is the representation of high relationship with all of life. As receptivity is actively practiced, resistance is released. Conflict turns to compassion. High relationship without resistance frees the spirit to soar into the experience and expression of its authentically boundless nature. Even prior to the troubadours’ focus on romantic love, in all its many forms, love has been the most analyzed, talked, written and sung about of all the human experiences. Most people seem to be in constant pursuit of love, yet remain mystified by this most significant aspect of life. It is really quite simple.

Attractor patterns are integral in the formation of situations that are experienced so one can better understand oneself. These patterns occur and reoccur to give a staging for self-investigation and insight. They appear within the content of the moment-to-moment experience as an appeal to the individual to awaken and ask the simple question, “Why am I experiencing myself in this way?”

Core issues and patterns of disunity are laden with known and unknown stories that, when revealed, bring a fuller awareness to you about why your life is as it is. You create patterns of disunity. Through the process of Fluent inquiry and investigation, the content of experience is opened to Truth. The story that has been created by you expresses itself as you. Information about the construction of systems that play themselves out through you is constantly revealed. Any impairment to mobility or sense of freedom either physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually is unearthed and/or restructured, so the system can be free to experience itself at its highest potential.

Self-created belief systems, fears, wounds, attachments and unresolved negative karma are subjects each student reveals and heals. Understanding and altering or releasing the core issues that have encumbered and restricted the expanded experience of the Self, brings the individual to higher levels of experience. Reunification and healing displace fragmentation and as the work completes itself, inner and outer realities move out of discord and into harmony. When Truth is uncovered, patterns are lifted and you again become clear-sighted, aligning yourself in thoughts, words and actions. In becoming disarmed, you recognize and align with what is. Love is seen behind every action and with clear-sighted understanding of life’s unfolding story.

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Principle of Self Responsibility

The world is not in the current condition because God wanted it this way. It is through human beings lack of communication, turning a deaf ear to higher consciousness that you must take full responsibility for the current condition and for adapting to it or changing it. As you activate your already present knowledge of your innate spiritual nature, you are guided to optimal ways of functioning.

As a student of Fluent Communication it is optimal for you to understand and accept the following pledge: “I am responsible for my life and everything I experience in it. I create my experience and I am responsible for re-creating all aspects that do not serve me optimally. To do this I take it upon myself to observe my thoughts, feelings, words and actions so I make choices that will assist me in changing the condition of the path I am presently walking.”

Finding your way back to authenticity, the relationship between the sacred and earthly parts of who you are, cannot be experienced outside yourself. In accepting the principle of self-responsibility, you ask yourself what, if anything, you would change, if you could, about your experience of yourself. Ask yourself: “Who am I? What do I want? Why am I here?”

Fluency students must commit to the study and reweaving of their life stories. Defining who you are, what you want and why you are here opens the door to seeing and understanding aspects of yourself that no longer serve you. As you grow into higher levels of conscious awareness, you will find creativity life affirming, adaptability inspirational, and sustainability seamless and blissful.

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